Dinner At The Wells Street Cafe

Location: Breaking Bread Ministries/LaSalle Street Church
Date: Wednesday, October 01, 2014; 5:45-8:30 pm

Galen wrote to me asking if I could help lead since she was sick and that’s never a good thing at a cooking project.  I arrived and saw that the ‘Moody Bible Institute’ students were already there, though there was no sign of Keith.  Someone mentioned that he was out shopping, which was cutting it a bit close.  He eventually arrived and immediately started allocating duties, saying that he wanted to get the Cornbread into the oven ASAP.  I learned that Marianne wasn’t going to be here this evening and that explained why Keith was looking so flustered.  He always seems to be struggling for time whenever he has to go solo.

The Cornbread...before
Galen came in and handed me the sign-up sheets and then left immediately.  Only 2 out of the other 4 Chicago Cares volunteers had come and Keith put all of us towards making the Cornbread.  There was an industrial sized mixer that we were supposed to use and Keith handed us his “secret recipe book” saying that if there was any question, we should just ask him.  We added the flour, sugar, eggs and milk into the mixer and then Keith asked me to put 2 sticks of butter into pans and insert into the oven to melt.  He said that I should keep an eye on it and not let it burn.  I got the butter out after a while and he said that this was his secret ingredient.  One of the volunteers added the contents of the mixture from the bowl into the two pans and we were ready to bake.  But for some reason Keith did not give us instructions to put the pans into the oven and so we did not.  Of course, later he said that we were wasting time and I mentioned that he had never told us to start baking and I had interpreted it has us having to add another “secret ingredient”!  Aah Keith.

We finally got the Cornbread in and I chatted with one of the other Chicago Cares volunteers who was visiting this place for the first time.  The fruit cans were being opened for the salad and once again, Keith wanted the right containers to be used.  Since he had to empty a bowl, he took the juice/syrup from the cans that was already in there and drank it!  I said that it must be disgustingly sweet and he said that he liked it.  He said that initially he had thought about adding that syrup into the juice that we serve, but since almost all of our guests do not get adequate nutrition, adding more corn syrup may not be a good idea.  Well, Keith does not have a problem with that and mentioned that right from birth we are in the process of dying, so why not!  The salads were done and Keith was now admonishing a guy who had just asked him something related to the cooking of the rice.  I said that he himself had encouraged people to ask him questions if they didn't know and so he should not be yelling at them when they did so.  He laughed, acknowledging his mistake, and no one over here really minds this.  Everyone knows that even though he may appear to be a hard task master, the reality is that Keith is a great guy.

...and after
The bread was baking, and Keith got us all together for his chat.  He told the new comers about the respect that we owe to our guests.  He then mentioned about everyone’s personal space and how sometimes there are incidences that happen and if so, he will take care of it.  He then repeated that we serve the hungry, not the homeless and it’s important to remember that hunger does not take a break.  John, who is a regular here, was fulfilling Marianne’s role and so allocated duties for the evening, wherein I offered to plate.  Besides the Cornbread, the main course was Pork & Beans.  We formed an assembly line with one person handing me a plate of rice on which I put a generous helping of Pork & Beans and then another volunteer added the Cornbread.  It was smelling amazing and I tried a piece. It was as advertised, another Kieth special.

Once the initial wave was done, I chatted with the ‘Moody Bible’ student next to me, who at a very young age said that she had found her life’s calling, which was to serve people.  I told her how fortunate I was to meet people like her during these projects.  We had very few requests for seconds and so there was a lot of food left over, which the volunteers took home.  The clean-up was done fast and so we could leave earlier.  One of the reasons for the fast service was that we had fewer guests than usual.  Keith mentioned that it was because it’s the 1st of the month and since many people had gotten paid, they were probably doing something else like going to a motel for a hot bath.  It is incredible how some of the things that we usually take for granted can mean so much for so many.  I left after a brief period of reflection with my Chicago Cares volunteers and after bidding the regulars goodbye for the month.  I have really become fond of this group and look forward to coming back. Hopefully Marianne will be back next month to provide her much needed support.

What's The Word

Location: Lakeview Nursing and Rehabilitation Center
Date: Wednesday, September 24, 2014; 6:30-8:00 pm

As much as I disliked it, this was going to be the final issue of ‘As We See It’ and today was our first working session for it.  I arrived to see that Gwyn was already there and in conversation with Jim, Jack, Larry and Elmer.  There were some other volunteers present, including Fran.  We discussed if there was any way for us to salvage this project by getting Chicago Cares to print the issues and Gwyn once again said that while they were supportive, there wasn’t enough time from when she finished the issue, to its printing through Chicago Cares and then having it delivered over here.  Plus it was clear that the support from Lakeview Nursing was minimal and so even if we could somehow make it work, there may be other hurdles.  If we wanted to continue our involvement over here in this time slot, then it was incumbent upon us to come up with an idea.  Gwyn said that Chicago Cares was supportive of a ‘Game Night’ type of project to replace this one, which may be a direction we go in.  In the meanwhile there were 5 more sessions left and the last one would be our “holiday party”.

I had never heard of a 'Sadie Hawkins Day'!
We started as usual by discussing the unique “holidays” that were coming up in November and December, forgoing the usual ‘Thanksgiving’ and ‘Christmas’.  I said that nowadays every day has something associated with food, for example there are days like ‘Chocolate Milkshake Day’!  If nothing else, we could fill up the calendar with those days.  But in the meanwhile we did have some other ones like, ‘Boxing Day’, ‘Pearl Harbor Day’ and ‘Time Change Day’.  Elmer then brought up ‘Sadie Hawkins Day’, something I had never heard of.  Apparently, it is a day when the girl is supposed to ask a guy out.  What!  Now that’s my kind of day and I cursed myself for never having heard of it.  I thanked Elmer for educating me saying that it was no wonder that he would remember something like that.  There was some confusion on the exact date, with November 3rd and 17th being suggested.  I said it didn't matter and I would wear my suit on both of those days.  In fact, to be safe I would wear my suit the entire month of November!  Gwyn then mentioned how on February 29th a girl could ask a guy to marry her and if he refused, he had to do so by buying her a skirt.  Gwyn said that she had tried it several times but was still waiting on a skirt. 

We then discussed other things like ‘McDonald's Thanksgiving Day Parade’ and my experience of carrying the balloon last year.  Then other ideas came up like the ‘Lights Festival’ on Michigan Avenue, ‘Kris Kringle Market’, ‘Zoo Lights’ etc.  As these were being recounted, I realized just how much I loved the holiday season.  It seemed like we had a lot of “days” to choose from and so shifted our attention to restaurant review.  We discussed some of the local ones, including ‘Paddy Longs’ and their infamous “Bacon Bomb”.  Gwyn looked it up and I said that all of us combined would not be able to finish it.  Larry begged to differ and said that he could polish off a 4 pound steak during his younger days and he could give it a go!

Next was the book review and this month’s selection was “The Drop”.  Elmer said that he had read it and was thinking of selling it off, which probably said a lot about it.  For the interview I said that since it was the final issue, how about we interview the folks who have been doing this for all these years – Jack, Jim and Larry.  Jim said that he had nothing good to say about this place and if he gave an interview, Gwyn would have to redact a lot of things with a black pen!  I said that a question like “Jim, what is your favorite thing about Lakeview Nursing” would probably have nothing but black lines.  Larry suggested that we interview some new "therapy doctor" and Elmer seconded that immediately, saying that she was very photogenic.  I said that I had guessed as much considering his enthusiasm.  Man, I am going to miss this banter. 

Next we discussed the sports section which dissolved into Larry and Jim criticizing the ‘Bears’ and their “pass-happy” strategy.  They both said that they had no confidence whatsoever in the ‘QB’.  Finally, we discussed the structure of the ‘Game Night’ project.  I said that we should have one game that we play together, though having multiple games does help attract people.  Jim said that having prizes would definitely get them “out of the woodwork”.  I suggested a “trivia” type of game whereas others wanted a ‘Casino’ night...of course.  We still have 2 months to plan and I told Gwyn that I would try to come for each of the remaining evenings.  This is still my favorite and since my first visit here, I have never left tired or unhappy, but I am sure I will be on the final day.

*All the client's names have been changed in order to respect their privacy

Boston Marathon – Jimmy Fund Walk

Location: Hopkinton Middle School To Copley Plaza, Boston
Date: Sunday, September 21, 2014; 5:00 am-4:00 pm

I have always felt that there are certain things in life that once achieved, nothing else matters. After all, what else could mean more?  Thus, I had never thought that I would ever again feel the true joy... I mean real joy of accomplishing something special.  Well not till today.

I love walking, I always have.  One of my favorite things to do is go to New York City and just walk.  It was the same when I lived in Pittsburgh and I remember with fondness my Sunday afternoon walks along the river.  Plus Chicago is a fantastic “walking city” as well.  But I have always wondered how it would feel to do a marathon length walk.  I was keen on the 39-mile ‘Avon’ walk but let’s face it, I was never going to be able to raise $1,800.  This one on the other hand required you to raise only $300 and that sounded doable.  I had thought about doing it last year, but it took 12 months to make it happen.  I raised the money easily in the end through all of my friends.  Now it was a question of training.

It was a long way to Boston
I thought about doing a long walk in Chicago and so looked at the map to gauge how long 26.2 miles really was.  It was long…really long.  In fact it would take me all the way to Evanston from my apartment…and back.  So the extent of my preparation was going and getting some shoes.  The organizers send me my bib number prior to the walk as well as a sticker saying, “I walk for”.  I flew into Boston a couple of days prior to the walk and stayed with a buddy.  On the Sunday of the walk, took a cab at 5 am to Copley Plaza, where couple of school buses were ready to take the participants to the start line in Hopkinton.  I got into the bus with lot of other people and chatted with a lady sitting next to me and who was doing the walk for a 2nd consecutive year.  “Watch out for the heartbreak hill at the end”, she warned me.  We drove into Hopkinton just as the rains started and with each passing mile it hit me how far we had gone and how far we had to walk back.  I used to live just outside of Hopkinton and had driven on these roads several times. But today would be different. It was a drizzle as I got off the bus and went inside the school to pick up my shirt, which  I put on after struggling a great deal with the safety pins.  I then wrote down the name of my best friend who has passed recently on the sticker, “I walk for” and once I had put that on, it was time to go. 

And I was off
As I stepped outside, the drizzle had stopped and the dawn was breaking.  Even though I don’t like it much, I ate a banana because that’s what people usually do before such things and drank a bottle of water.  Then I was off on the course at 6:23 am.  We were on ‘Route 135’ and instead of blocking off the entire road as they usually do for marathons; they had just put some Orange cones and created a small lane for us on the side of the road.  This meant that there was regular traffic on the road, though it was a bit early for many to be out.  Several people were walking in groups and some had shirts and signs regarding their cause, or the memory of the person that they were walking on behalf of.  As I walked past some of the residential houses, I saw some inspirational messages posted on the sidewalks on how ‘Jimmy Fund’ was spending the money that we had raised.  In fact every ‘Mile Marker’ had a photo of someone who had been associated with ‘Jimmy Fund’ either as a patient, or otherwise.  Besides being an indicator for distance, those signs were an encouragement for all of us to keep moving and the reason why we were out there.

Everyone was out to support us
At ‘Mile Marker 2’ I arrived at a “refueling station” and was greeted by a group of cheering volunteers. I loaded up on some water, ‘Gatorade’ and some power bars and resumed my walk.  Our route was taking us past suburban towns and around ‘Mile Marker 5’ I was feeling the effects of the increasing temperature.  The rain had long stopped and the sun had come out.  I stopped at a ‘Dunkin Donuts’ and went inside to change into shorts and put everything else inside a backpack that I was carrying.  Now that the weather was nice, many of the residents had come out to cheer us on.  I saw a guy with a three-legged ‘Golden Retriever’ and being that it’s my favorite bred of dogs, I wanted to stop and pet him, but decided to keep moving.  I later saw them both after a few miles, meaning that they were driving ahead and finding a spot to stop and cheer the walkers.  Same was true of another gentleman who was ringing “cowbells” as people went by.  I saw him throughout the day, all the way to Boston.  As tiring as this was getting, the support of the people on the way as well as the volunteers at the food stations was helping.  And they were not the only ones providing refreshments.  There were many families with kids who were distributing food and water out of the back of their cars and they were doing it off their own accord.

The Welcoming Committee at Natick
I passed a big water reservoir and then arrived at the Natick town square, where a lot of festivities were on.  After picking up some fluids and snacks there, I kept moving and eventually joined ‘Washington Street’. Between ‘Mile Marker’s 15-16’ was a big refueling station with a giant tent and where lunch sandwiches were being served.  This was the first instance since I had set off that I sat down for a bit and had my sandwich.  While my body was asking me to stay a bit longer, it was time to get going.  I crossed ‘I-95’ and joined ‘Commonwealth Avenue’ which has plenty of ups and downs and with 10 miles still to go, I was exhausted…truly exhausted to the point that I felt that I had hit a wall. 
As I passed the beautiful residences on ‘Commonwealth Avenue’, I was dragging my feet.  I sat down for a bit on someone’s hedge made of stones and looked at what was ahead of me.  What was coming up was the dreaded “Heartbreak Hill”.  It is an uphill stretch which knocked the wind out of me and just before we hit ‘Boston College’, I saw a “Medical Station” and sat down on a bed like thing.  There were people available to assist if required but all I wanted to do was to take some weight of my feet for a few minutes.  After a few minutes I realized that this was not going to get any easier by just sitting and the best thing would be to keep going. 
I joined ‘Beacon Street’ meaning we were on the last stretch.  I was now looking forward to seeing each of the ‘Mile Markers’ but these 5 miles would be the most brutal of my life.  I was now well and truly in the heart of the city and were walking on sidewalks past people enjoying their Sunday brunch in restaurants with outdoor seating.  They were oblivious to what was going on, but there were a few fans who were cheering us on through signs such as “Thank You for walking”.  Just as I got to ‘Fenway Park’, I saw a woman with a hilarious poster that said, “Me, Lazy, Sitting, Made this poster.  You, Brave, Walking, Raising Money”.  I disagree.  She had no reason to be out there and by doing so, she had proven that she was not lazy.  She was very much one of us.  
It had taken 9.5 hours, but was worth every minute in the end
With 3 miles to go, I was encountering a lot of traffic lights and stopping the momentum and starting again is not very easy when you are tired.  At one stage we had to cross a ditch where construction was in progress and getting down a few inches and up again was a monumental hurdle.  With one mile to go, I came across cheering squads lined up on the side of these busy streets.  Perhaps it was because we were so close, but now I had my second wind and all the events of the day were being replayed in my mind. I was filled with immense pride for doing this.  Nine and half hours since I had started at Hopkinton, I approached the finish banner and realized that this was one of the most significant things that I had ever done.  All my achievements before this, academic, professional, all of them had been because of other peoples contributions and help.  This was the first thing that I had done by myself.  Sure I would be sore for days and it would hurt badly tomorrow, but I had just walked the ‘Boston Marathon’ course.  The same one for which I had volunteered a few months ago.  And I had completed it.  No one can ever take that away from me.  Yeah, I had always thought that after you find the one thing that you want most in your life nothing else would feel special.  But  for this one moment it was the most outstanding feeling ever.

For this, a thousands miles over.

Adler After Dark

Location: Adler Planetarium
Date: Thursday, September 18, 2014; 5:30-10:00 pm

It was time for another ‘After Dark’ and the theme for this month was ‘Hops & Bots’, meaning there would be beer and robotics, though whether there would be beer serving robots was unclear to me!  I was delayed in getting to Adler and it was almost 5:30 pm by the time I arrived.  As I went over to collect my pizza, I saw Tiffany from ‘One Brick’ was here tonight as a ‘Registration Volunteer’.  I chatted with her till Michael gathered the ‘Education Hosts’ together for assignments.  He said that there were 8 brewers in the house tonight and all the guests would be getting a fixed number of tickets which they could exchange for sample pours at different stations throughout the museum.  We were to tell them not to lose the tickets since there was no way for us to replace those.  One thing I have learned is that people keep track of their drink tickets more stringently than they do their kids.  After all, there is a greater likelihood of reporting a lost child and finding someone to help you than a lost drink ticket, where you are truly out of luck!

Michael said that most of the demonstrations this evening would be done by the robotics folks and our main focus was on “Pocket Science”.  Plus, they needed help at registration, which was where I was to be stationed for the initial couple of hours.  This would be followed by an hour of “Pocket Science” and finally closing out the evening is ‘SVL’.  Michael wanted us to focus on the “Shoot for the moon” gallery for engaging visitors, especially in order to keep them moving and not causing a bottleneck.  I said that maybe we should use “Space food” as means to move people from that gallery to the ‘Gemini’ capsule, where we could show them the space constraints that the ‘Astronauts’ had to deal with.  Since robotics was the main theme, Michael showed us one of the things that we would be helping with, a tiny robot ball that could be programmed to follow a certain path using an ‘iPad’.  There was to be an obstacle course where the guests were encouraged to move the ball through it and it looked like a fun thing for everyone, especially after a few beers.

I went for my registration duty just as people started coming in, taking a seat next to Tiffany.  As people came over, I would start by asking them if they had been here before.  If they said yes, I would welcome them back and tell them that this evening was a bit different than what they might have seen before.  I would then hand them the beer tickets and ask them to protect those with their life!  Finally I would remind them to be at the shows at least 20-30 minutes beforehand to guarantee seating.  If there were newcomers, I would welcome them by saying that they had picked an excellent evening to attend.  After all we had beer and robots.  What could possibly be better than that!  I would tell them that the shows were one of our signature things and so they should definitely plan on attending at least one.  When asked if it was free, I would say that it was included in the price of admission, but since the demand was high, entry would only be subject to availability.  As usual, I had trouble with the wristbands and couple of them even asked me to do them again.  Many folks were excited about the theme and a girl even said that this was what she had been dreaming of.  A bit dramatic, but I liked her enthusiasm.  I met all sorts of people over the 2 hours that I was there, though I was getting tired due to the non-stop chatter. 

"Pocket Science" with 'Meteorites'
Just before 8 pm I was relieved of my duties at registration and so went over to collect the 'Meteorites' which would be my “Pocket Science” assignment.  I saw that there was a big group waiting for entry to one of the shows and so decided to start with that line.  I asked some folks what was the oldest thing they had touched and this always gets people thinking.  One person said “Great Wall of China” while another said “Earth”, which pretty much covered everything that others could have said.  I said that I could get them something to touch that was older than Earth itself – about 4.5 Billion years old – and then pull out the 'Meteorites'.  After “thrilling” that group I moved to another location and ran the same routine.  Michael said that there was a big line outside waiting for telescope viewing and so I moved there.  It really was a beautiful night and I approached a group at the back of the line.  I asked them, “How would you like to touch a shooting star instead of just watching the stars”.  This got them excited and so I went through the routine with them.  One couple asked me when the last time was that we had gone to the moon and why haven’t we been back.  This was an excellent question and I discussed one of my favorite topics with them - the ‘Apollo’ program.  I told them how the program had been structured and how every step had been planned meticulously and then executed.  I said that the reason we hadn’t been back was because people felt that there was nothing new left to learn…but that was more than 40 years ago.  Today it may be worth another visit.  They said that they would love to go to Mars.  I said that in absence of them being selected for the mission, if they came to ‘SVL’, I could “take” them to Mars through the ‘NUIverse’ program. 

I arrived at ‘SVL’ and saw that Dave was in fact showing people that program.  I was about to relieve him when Michael came over and asked me to continue with “pocket science”, this time with “Space Food”.  He handed me a pouch of “Dehydrated Orange/Mango Juice”, a pouch of “Dehydrated Mexican Scrambled Eggs” and “Ice Tea”.  My tactic was to ask people to hold the bottle of ice tea and ask them how much it weighed.  They would say that it was approximately a pound.  Then I would ask them its cost – about $1.25 in the vending machine.  Then I would say that in space its worth would be about $10,000, because that’s how much it costs to send a pound of material into space.  Then I would show them the two dehydrated pouches and say that this was the food that was available to the space travelers.  Now the question was how they would rehydrate it, since carrying water bottles would defeat the purpose.  This would get people thinking and I would tell them that the astronauts made their own water through condensation of breath and sweat…think about that. 

I enjoy these conversations immensely and people do have a genuine interest in learning.  I had a great conversation with a lady, who had a ‘Doctorate in Nursing’ degree, and her husband; as I showed them the ‘Gemini’ capsule and linked it to the items I was carrying.  It was getting late and just after 10 pm I came downstairs to the volunteer area to return the props.  I told Michael that I had enjoyed myself, though I would not be able to come for the October session.  He asked if I wanted to come for a lunar eclipse program next month which started at 3 am.  Well, I have done my share of volunteering, but 3 am!  That would be a first.  

Read–With-Me At HGS

Location: House Of The Good Shepherd
Date: Tuesday, September 16, 2014; 6:30-7:45 pm

I walked into HGS with Marvin who was the leader for this evening.  Considering that it was a nice day, he said that we may all be able to come outside and play.  Wilson was there as well but seeing as there were more than enough volunteers, he left to deal with a fire.  The rest of us went downstairs and since everyone that was present was a seasoned HGS volunteer, Marvin said that his job was easier.  He said that many of the families had recently left HGS and considering that I had not been here for a few months, almost all of the kids I had known from before were gone.  Well, maybe someone from this new lot would be pick me as a reading partner.

One girl came in and she was as energetic as anyone who has been here before.  She was also quite dramatic in her persona and I knew that it would be an interesting evening with her.  We were waiting for other kids to show up and when none of them did, she went upstairs to recruit them.  She did bring a bunch of kids with her and all of them immediately rushed to pair up with a volunteer…except me of course.  I guess some things don’t change.  The girl from earlier had not picked anyone yet and besides me there was another volunteer who was free.  The girl said that she would read with both of us.  Well, that would work for me.  She picked very short 4-5 books that were way below her reading level and it was clear that there were other things on her mind besides reading. 

I did a reading of this in a "French" accent!
It looked like she has been strongly influenced by Wilson’s “Drama Club” that they have here on Thursday’s, as she wanted to do all of the readings in a “dramatic way”.  She proceeded to do a reading of a book, which in her opinion was dramatic, but was more like a rant of a TV Evangelist.  She them made my fellow volunteer read in a loud way, as if he was shouting.  As he did that, the rest of the kids realized that it was much more fun to watch our group rather than read and basically the entire organized reading structure collapsed.  As the volunteer screamed, she would bang on the table for effect and wanted him to read to the beat of her banging.  I sympathized with the poor fellow but not for too long since I was up next.  I had a book called ‘Ernie And The Twiddlebug Town Fair’ and she wanted me to read it in a French accent with dramatic flair.  Since dramatic in her mind meant loud, she wanted me to scream, at which I pointed out that French were in fact more soft spoken than others.  What followed next was me butchering the French accent, which sounded more British and German by the time I was done with it.  Next she took a book called ‘Rhino Peanut Butter’, which is a story of a Rhino who has misplaced his peanut butter sandwich, and is looking everywhere for it.  She did a performance with a lot of improvisation, as the Rhino searched for the sandwich.  With each passing page, myself - and the rest of the audience - were getting curious on what had happened to the sandwich, which was eventually discovered stuck to the back side of the Rhino, but not before she had hammed through the story.

Next, Marvin had the kids distribute cookies and the girl gave my fellow volunteer 2, saying that he had done a better job than me!  We were now going outside and she was clearly taking charge, saying that while others could play, we should take some books with us and put together an outdoor performance for everyone.  Oh, boy.  We went into what looked like a backyard and while the other kids either played on swings or slides, our girl gathered us 2 volunteers around an Aluminum bench for practice.  She had chosen 5 paged books on Kittens or Dogs or some kids, and wanted us to do the readings in a dramatic way - me in French and the other guy in an evil demonic voice.  This would most certainly be interesting.

Practice was more of her telling us what she wanted and then she went and recruited – or rather dragged – audience of 2 other volunteers and the kids that they were with.  She started with the book on Kittens and in front of a confused audience gave a performance that would make one look at Kittens in a very horrified way.  This included, at times, dragging the kids back into their seats and asking the audience questions.  Next I took to the “stage” for my reading on Dogs in German-French gibberish, leading to one little girl in the audience saying she did not understand me.  At least she wasn’t like another kid who threw dirt at me, a far cry from the flowers that people used to shower on stage performers in order to show their appreciation!  Next, the other volunteer took over and positively scared away everyone through his voice.  The performance was thankfully over, though if the people thought they could leave, they were mistaken.  Our girl then interviewed every audience member on how the performance was and the other little girl once again singled me out for criticism.  Sigh, tough crowd. 

Time was almost up and the girl’s mom was calling her inside.  We all went in and packed up after what had been the most unique ‘Read-With-Me’ project…and I had loved it.  If anyone had told me that we would succeed in making cute Kittens appear scary, I would not have believed them.  But such was our skill.  I hope this girl grows up to become something special.  For what we saw today was someone who would do well for herself.  She has the one thing people need in life - passion for something, no matter the ability.

Lakeview Pantry West

Location: Lakeview Pantry West
Date: Saturday, September 06, 2014; 10:00 am-1:15 pm

The serene road to 'Lakeview Pantry West'
It was the first time since ‘Valentine’s Day’ that I was going to Lakeview Pantry.  It was a nice day and the walk from the train station takes one through a pleasant neighborhood.  As I entered the basement, I saw Carrie who recognized and greeted me.  A volunteer was unloading a truck with produce and other boxes and so that became the first order of business.  After everything had been unloaded, it was time to weight it, since every item of food that comes in is weighed for reporting purposes.  There were donations from 2 places – ‘Plum Market’ and ‘Trader Joe’s’ and each had to be weighed separately. I worked with a Lakeview volunteer by placing everything on the scale while she wrote down the numbers.  Two gentlemen came in and one person had his son and daughter with him.  They had boxes with leftovers from the little girls 5th birthday and all of those items needed to be weighed as well.  It had been less than half an hour and I already had a workout!

After all of the weighing had been done, I took out the trash and then broke down the boxes for recycling.  All the volunteers were sorting produce to decide what to keep and to throw away.  I worked on the corn – we had lots of it – and the bananas, trying my best to guess which could be saved and those bananas I placed in a box by the doorway, for people to pick on their way out. Next, we had to get the meat out of the freezer and stack it in its rightful place on the shelves.  After that came the eggs, milk and yogurt from the refrigerator.  There were several cases of yogurt and since there was going to be maintenance on the fridge soon, Carrie wanted us to hand out as much of the yogurt as possible to the clients.  “Make a tower of the yogurt crates”, she said.  As we arranged the meat, one of the volunteers told me that if the sealed package containing the meat was puffed up, then it meant that the meat had gone bad and needed to be tossed out.  And she didn't even eat meat.  There is always something new to learn at these projects!

After umpteen trips to the refrigerator to get things for the shelves, we seemed to have most of the items displayed for the initial surge and so Carrie sat down to assign duties.  Since I was one of the experience volunteers, she appointed me to be a floater and help out as required.  The clients started coming in and we commenced on the cycle of serving them.  I was helping restock as required, especially the yogurt, which we were encouraging people to carry home in bulk.  One lady, who was having difficulty walking, asked if I could help her carry groceries home.  Well, I would have certainly liked to have helped her, but did not want to say yes without knowing where she lived.  She said that she was right across the street, which made it easier, and so helped take her bags up the stairs to her front door.

By this stage I was running out of gas and Carrie appointed me to hand out some coupons for an hour of “free shopping” at a neighborhood “Rummage Sale” this afternoon.  I went about asking the clients if they wanted a coupon and managed to give all of them away in less than 2 minutes. Carrie said that I should help out in the clothing section in the back and I would be working with the volunteer who had told me about the meat.  She was sorting clothes and those that were not being kept, were going into bags which would be placed in a green colored pickup bin located outside.  My job was to carry these bags and over the duration of the next 30 minutes, there were several of those.  This was followed by a request to take boxes out to the recycling bin.  I could well have been called “The Muscle” for this session! 

I came back to find that all the clients had left and the volunteer at the deli section had done a terrific job of getting all the yogurt distributed.  Carrie asked us to help restock the shelves with whatever cans had run out, by getting them from the pantry.  We did that and then the final task was to transfer everything from the refrigerator – since it was being serviced – to another in the adjacent church.  By the time we were done I was thoroughly exhausted but I never mind doing all of this for someone like Carrie.  When people talk about leaders for whom one does whatever is asked, they could well be describing her. And she leads not by authority, but with dignity and through kindness. She has been and will always be the best site representative that I have had the privilege to work with.

Dinner At The Wells Street Cafe

Location: Breaking Bread Ministries/LaSalle Street Church
Date: Wednesday, September 03, 2014; 5:45-8:30 pm

I was returning back after several months, but it was a familiar feeling when I entered the kitchen and saw the usual pre-meal rush.  Marianne recognized and greeted me by saying, “My contacts doctor is here”.  I couldn't see Keith anywhere and someone mentioned that he was out getting some last minute items for the dinner.  Galen, who has taken over the leadership of this project arrived soon thereafter and we reminisced how it had just been the previous year that she had come here as a volunteer – when I was leading I might add – and now she was leading herself.  Maybe I had done enough to inspire here!

Back again
There were several volunteers from the ‘Moody Bible Institute’, including a few newcomers.  In the kitchen a couple of volunteers were chopping vegetables for salad and I was directing a volunteer on how to be safe with a knife.  He was doing something which would probably have led to an accident and I told him how to fold his fingers so as to keep them away from the blade.  Hey, watching ‘Food Network’ can be helpful!  Another guy had been tasked with mixing two types of dressing together – creamy and a oil based vinaigrette.  I told him keep tasting so as to ensure there was a balance between the two.  Yeah, another tip I have picked up on the way.  Most of the volunteers were new and so told them – including folks at the fruit station – that we would eventually have to distribute in 21 bowls.  18, Marianne corrected. Wow, things had changed since I was last here.  She said that the clothing room had closed and so their attendance had dropped, leading to them eliminating 3 tables from the dining room. 

While the salads were being prepared, I went outside to distribute water jugs on the tables.  One lady stopped me to chat and asked where I was from.  After I had responded, she said that she was from Puerto Rico.  She wanted to know what the menu was for the evening and I said that I had seen chicken and that was the extent of all I knew.  I told her that the salads would be out soon and that she should enjoy the evening.  I saw that some of the salt shakers were empty and some were just missing.  I asked Keith, who had returned, and he said that this was all that we had.  So I just took some salt from some of the shakers and filled the empty ones.  Even then there were a few tables without any salt and pepper and I told the people sitting there that they would have to share with their neighbors. 

Keith had some people working on rice and had asked them to add 54 cups of water.  But when he came to examine, he saw that the rice was sticky and so said it didn’t have enough water.  The volunteers who had been helping him said that they had added exactly the same amount of water as he wanted them to.  Then we realized that they were not supposed to stir once it was simmering and that was the reason for the rice being the way it was.  I said that it could be like sushi rice, which is not the worst thing…well, with sushi at least.  There was no dessert this evening, meaning that we were almost done, allowing me some time to chat with Marianne as she told me about her upcoming trip to Scotland.

Next, it was time for Keith’s talk and he did his usual welcome for the new volunteers – with occasional playful banter with Marianne.  Then he told us the protocol on welcoming and treating guests, saying that over the last 2 months he has rethought this being a dinner for homeless. He said it was a dinner for the hungry, which could include homeless, substance abusers, people who are broke, or those who just need to decide between paying bills and getting dinner.  This made complete sense to me and was the right way of describing the program.  Marianne then did her bit and finally one of the ‘Moody Bible’ volunteers led us in prayer.  Now it was time for service.  We had bread today and Marianne asked us to arrange it in 18 bread baskets which we distributed on the tables along with salads and juice.  The musical program was on, including a lady giving a rousing performance of ‘Money’, which has been covered by ‘Beatles’ amongst others.  We plated the dinner, which was a Jambalaya type rice dish with chicken and sausages. 

Marianne asked me keep tally of the plates served, including seconds and volunteer meals and so I positioned myself next to the servers as the guests lined up for seconds.  There were no takeout containers and so I asked some volunteers to cut Aluminum foil for people to use for takeout.  One gentleman waited patiently even though it was his first meal, not having come in time for the first service.  One person missed dinner because he had been with the nurse. Marianne said that we must find a way to ensure this does not happen because nothing is more heartbreaking for someone to miss a meal, especially when it may be their only one of the day.  I said maybe we can have a token or something that can be placed on their chair so that we know that we must save a plate for them. 

The cleanup operation started and I went over to help with the chairs and the tables.  Some of the guests helped out as well, which was heartening to see.  One of the guests said that she had lost her cell phone and as much as we wanted to help, we couldn’t find it and there was nothing that we could do.  After clean-up Galen said that we should take a group photo and so we did and I left after that.  It had been a wonderful homecoming for me, for this feels just like that.  

Job Coaching

Location: Open Door Shelter
Date: Monday, August 25, 2014; 6:45-8:30 pm

I was leading again this month and while I wasn’t as detailed in my preparations as before, I did send out a high level agenda in my welcome email to the volunteers.  Two of them dropped out and I was a bit concerned that we may not have enough.  So I asked Wilson if he could help recruit and the project promptly appeared on the ‘Meetup’ calendar, leading to 2 volunteers signing up through that.  I arrived at ODS in advance and soon the volunteers started coming in, including the ones from ‘Meetup’.  I went through my introduction of the location and the residents as well as how the evening was expected to unfold.  They were all paying rapt attention and with most of the questions addressed, it was time to go upstairs.

Everyone loves pizza!
We entered the common area and I gathered the youth around the table.  They were very engaged today and in fact came as soon as beckoned.  We went around the table and introduced ourselves and then as an icebreaker, I said that we should play the game of 10 things that they have in common with each other.  Since there were 6 youth and 6 volunteers besides me, I paired a youth with a volunteer.  Everyone was involved in a passionate discussion and I was walking about and listening.  A group of 2 youth and volunteers had gotten together and identified pizza as one of the things that they had in common.  I said that this was easy, so they had to see if there was a particular style that each of them liked, for example Chicago, New York or ‘Neapolitan’.   They said that they liked all types and I really couldn't argue against that! 

While this was going on, a new volunteer arrived and she said that she had come through the ‘Meetup’ as well.  I took her aside and told her about this place and the project, and she seemed were enthusiastic.  I placed her with another volunteer and his youth, though the time for this activity was almost up.  I pulled everyone back to the table and the pizza group went first.  They mentioned that one other thing that was common to all of them was that each of them had lost a pet.  Lost, not died, which was fascinating because it’s not as if you park your pet somewhere and lose track do you!  Other duos had interesting ones like some liked to grow plants, or things like shopping for shoes and favorite TV shows.  This had been a fun game to get everyone warmed up and now we could move on to the main activity for the evening.

Once again, there was one volunteer per youth, except in one place where we had 2 volunteers.  I wanted the volunteers to take the youth through an entire cycle of a job search; starting with creating resumes, applying for a job, networking, interviewing and finally the follow-up.  I told them not to try and do everything, but if the youth wanted to focus on one particular area of the process, then to spend more time on that.  The session got underway and as before I was walking about and checking on people from time to time.  I stopped by one pair and the youth said that she wanted to become a paramedic.  I said that there may be hundreds of applicants for that job - thousands, she corrected.   I asked how we could help her become the best candidate and move to the top of the list.  I said that she should be prepared for questions like, “What’s the most stressful situation you have been in” etc. 

I stopped by a duo and the discussion was whether having tattoos was going to be a problem at the interviews.  I said that unless the tattoos were offensive, as an employer I should be more interested in the candidate’s future than anything else.  If the candidate came across as a personable individual, this should not matter as much as sincerity.  A youth wanted to be a chef and the 2 volunteers interviewing him told me that they would definitely hire him.  Another candidate was really willing to learn and was working with the volunteer on preparing an application for a job.  One was writing her resume while one volunteer was trying hard to bring a shy youth out of his shell.  This was by far the best group of volunteers and candidates that I had ever seen during my visits here.  I said as much to their site counselor and he was pleased to hear this.  He said that we are really helping to which I replied that it was our responsibility to do so. 

It was nearly time and I gathered everyone back at the table for reflection.  I asked all – youth and volunteers alike – what they had learnt and offered them a chocolate piece for each response.  All of them gave great answers, including the volunteers; though some youth said that they were allergic to chocolate!  We came downstairs and I had a separate debriefing session with the volunteers. They had some good suggestions like doing a real interview through sitting across a table so that we could study the youth’s body language.  They also said that we should coach the youth on writing “Thank You” notes.  This had been a terrific session and I was really glad to have had the ‘Meetup’ crew along with the regular Chicago Cares volunteers.  Not bad for a backup leader.  

8th Annual Threadless Family Reunion

Location: West Loop
Date: Saturday, August 23, 2014; 1:00-3:00 pm

This is an annual event where artists get together for a day of games and other fun activities.  The theme for this year had something to do with Universe etc. and of course ‘Adler Planetarium’ was involved.  Michael had sent an email soliciting volunteers and I had replied that due to other commitments, I would not be able to attend the entire event from 10 am onward, but could help out in the afternoon; which was fine with him.  I did not know anything about ‘Threadless’ as an organization and according to their Wikipedia page, “Threadless is an online community of artists and an e-commerce website based in Chicago.  Threadless designs are created by and chosen by an online community. Each week, about 1,000 designs are submitted online and are put to a public vote. After seven days the staff reviews the top-scoring designs. Based on the average score and community feedback, about 10 designs are selected each week, printed on clothing and other products, and sold worldwide through the online store and at their retail store in Chicago.”  Sounded like an interesting concept.

Initially I had thought that this was at Adler, but the learnt that it was actually at a location in West Loop.  As I walked over there, the skies were looking threatening and I had not carried any umbrella with me.  I arrived to see a carnival like setup with different game stations where families with kids were enjoying themselves.  Adler had a couple of tables under a tent and I saw some familiar faces from ‘After Dark’. One of the main attractions was a “Robotic Checkers’ game, with two sets of robotic arms that could be maneuvered on a checkers board.  Also, there was the dry ice experiment, and materials to “Make your own Martian”.  Also, there was a bowl of cornstarch and water to demonstrate “Non-Newtonian” material – hard when you tap on it, but melts when pressed.  Oh boy, I better remember that ‘Rheology’ course from all those years ago!

The dry ice "crystal ball" actually worked!
I stood next to the “Martian” station and a kid came over with his mom.  He started making his creature and said that it was a “Cyclops” with one eye.  I told him to be as creative as he wanted to, and he did a good job using the materials.  Later, his brother came and made his own creature and they both had fun at our station.  As some of the volunteers who had been there since morning took a break, I took over the dry ice station. We were making the bubble in a bowl, otherwise known as "the crystal ball", the "rocket in the canister" and also a tube which showed how dry ice sublimes. The CO2 vapors are transferred through the tube and can be seen at the other end as bubbles in a soap solution.  As people came over, I would ask them about dry ice and then tell them about its properties, especially the ability to “sublime”.  Then I would mention that this was how ‘Hollywood’ made all of its cheap special effects for horror movies. People were excited to see the bubbles and for most parts, we were successful in our demonstrations.  Once when it did not work, I told the visitors that they were just going to have to see a picture to believe me.  Yeah, that is very scientific!  But the important thing was to educate the visitors and so I was telling them how dry ice had been used to solve a 150 year old mystery regarding the “Martian canals”.  Many wanted to touch it but it wasn’t wise to do so without gloves.  All in all, everyone liked the demonstrations.  Just like “After Dark”, we had a volunteer walking about with Meteorites doing “Pocket science”.  The best place to engage people was as they waited in lines at various game stations such as “Ping-Pong”, some rockets that you could launch by jumping on a pump, a “Bouncy house”, and a giant inflatable Rat that you had to “feed” using balls! 

The skies finally opened up and the rain came down in Biblical proportions.  Everyone rushed inside a warehouse like thing and it looked like we would be in there for some time.  The party was well and truly on indoors and people were playing games in order to win tickets, which they could exchange for t-shirts.  I tried my hand at a “miniature golf” game and actually made a “hole-in-one”!  I got a ticket which I could have used, but the line to get the shirts was a mile long.  It just goes to show that people love their ‘SWAG’, but hey, it was pouring outside. What else were they going to do!  It did not look like we would be going out anytime soon, and so after a round of discussion on planetary motion around the sun with my colleagues, I called a cab and left.  It had been a nice little outing, even with the terrible weather.  And I had actually won at something – an event rarer than spotting a one-eyed ‘Cyclops’.  

Adler After Dark

Location: Adler Planetarium
Date: Thursday, August 21, 2014; 5:00-10:00 pm

Though my soul may set in darkness
It will rise in perfect light
I have loved the stars too fondly
To be fearful of the night
-  Sarah Williams, ‘The Old Astronomer’

The heavens had opened up and despite taking a cab, I was soaked when I arrived.  I was supposed to attend today as a guest, but then decided to volunteer instead, which turned out to be one of the best decisions.  Michael had sent out information ahead of time as usual and this month’s theme was “Space Oddity” featuring of course, David Bowie – well, as an inspiration, not in person.  Michael mentioned that I would be “mentoring” a new volunteer Don.  Wow, I was a veteran now. 

I went up to get pizza and chatted with Carrie for a bit and then Michael showed us our schedule.  From 6:30-8 pm, I would be doing “Golden Record” with Don.  From 8-8:30 pm I would be at the Historical Artifacts section and then from 8:30-10 pm I would be at ‘SVL’, shadowing.  This was good since ‘SVL’ is the most technical place in the museum and having someone who can guide you is helpful.  There were 35 face-masks of David Bowie all over the museum, in places such as behind display cases, as well as Jim Lowell’s statue face! This would be one of the scavenger hunts, where guests would be asked to locate all the faces.   Someone asked Michael if David Bowie was expected to be here and Michael said this was not his usual commute!

Voyager
We went for a tour and the first stop was the ‘Planet Explorer’s’ classroom for the “Golden Record” activity.  The idea was to replicate the metal plaques that are on board ‘Voyager 1’ and ‘Voyager 2’ spacecraft’s.  Launched in 1977, these spacecraft’s have gone further than any other man-made object and are now in interstellar space.  On these records are images and sounds found in nature, as well as music from various cultures, speech and other printed messages.  Assembled by the legendary Carl Sagan, we were now asking people to make their own replica’s – on golden colored card-stock paper – and display it on the community wall inside the classroom.  Then at the end of the evening they could come back and claim them.  As the guests would come in for the activity, we were to ask them, “What message would you sent to the aliens” and then leave them to it.  Also on the wall was a playlist of the one song that they would like to include on the record.

Michael said that there was a ‘Bluetooth’ speaker in case we wanted to play music off our phone and he said that he would demonstrate if his phone’s battery had some juice left.  I said that we would offer our phones, if we were allowed to keep them!  We were asked to surrender our phones during our shift and so this lead to laughter in the group, and Michael joined in as well.  The group left me and Don – my shadow for this activity – to prepare the room for the guests.  Don and I had met during orientation and we set about arranging colored pens and pencils on each table.  At 6:30 pm people started coming in and I would deliver my opening remarks and concluded by saying, “Remember that the aliens may not speak English”.  Everyone was having fun with their designs and we got everything from drawings of houses to drawings of the occult!  There were fart jokes, drawings of people’s favorite things and even messages like, “Come take us”, wherein I said to them, “Be careful what you wish for”.  The song’s list was growing as well and first up was “Imagine” followed by Brittany Spears and even “Here comes the sun” - one of my favorites.  The wall was filling up with plaques and songs when I noticed a girl writing a poem on one of the records.  It was lovely and apt for the surroundings, and I had to ask her about it.  She said that it was a poem called “The Old Astronomer To his Pupil” by Sarah Williams, and the instant I saw it, I knew that it would be one of the most perfect things I would ever read.  We talked about it and I said it would be the wall’s pride to have it up there.  I reminded her to come pick it up at the end of the evening and she said that didn’t need it, at which I asked permission to take it with me.

My next stop was at the Historical artifacts station and my job was to request people to leave their drinks outside the room, since many of the artifacts were over 100 years old.  During a period of slow traffic I went and chatted with Lauren, who was facilitating this program.  She showed me various artifacts, including texts from Galileo’s era.  There was also a spirit lamp, a time piece, a news article and some pictures from mid-19th Century ‘Sun’, which showed that there was life on Moon  - claiming that if God was omnipotent, why wouldn't there be left everywhere.  There was a box which was first displayed in the ‘World’s Fair’, held in Chicago, which claimed to receive light from a star 40 light years away and used it to generate electricity.  I told Lauren that having spent years trying to make photovoltaic devices, this was impossible – unless they were using materials that are now extinct!

My final stop for the evening was in ‘Space Visualization Laboratory’ and I went in to see Dave over at the ‘Microsoft NUIverse’ table, while an 'Astrophysicist' delivered a lecture in the background on 3-D simulations.  People are always fascinated by this table and today was no exception.  As I came in, Dave was telling a group how all of the satellites of ‘Uranus’ are named after a ‘Shakespearean’ character.  As the discussion got interesting, at one stage the lecturer got upset that we were making noise.  Dave left at 9 pm and I took over the guest engagement role.  A couple of guys came over and one of them was actually a telescope volunteer over here and was visiting with his brother.  I told them about the satellites of ‘Uranus’ and hearing ‘Shakespeare’s’ name, two other girls headed over to see what we were doing.  I told everyone that while other planets and satellites were good, I preferred our home planet’s view.  Three girls came and they were from different parts of the country and world and so we zoomed in on the image to find their home location. 

The record on my wall
It was nearing the end, but not before a couple stopped by, and perhaps it was to impress his date, but the guy started asking questions on the curvature of space around the sun.  Alright then, definitely time for me to leave!  The girl who had written the poem on the record visited 'SVL' and as we chatted, I learned that her name was Sam, and she was from Pittsburgh, meaning we could definitely talk for hours.  She asked me directions to the nearest train station and I said that I would walk with her.  I collected the poem that Sam had written and we chatted about Pittsburgh on our way to the station.  It had been an excellent evening, not least because of the wonderful gift that Sam gave me and which occupies a proud spot on my office wall.  

What's The Word

Location: Lakeview Nursing and Rehabilitation Center
Date: Wednesday, August 13, 2014; 6:30-8:00 pm

I have said it before and I will say it again.  This project holds a special significance for me.  It’s the first one that I ever participated in and so will always be one of my favorites.  Having said that, I had not been here for months and when I found myself free this evening, I signed up as soon as I saw an opening.  I arrived to see that Gwyn was already there, as were Larry, Jack and Jim, who was sporting a nice beard.  It had been Jack’s birthday recently and so instead of working on the newsletter, we would be celebrating.  Gwyn had spent the entire day baking and had made a "Pineapple Upside Down Cake" and "Oatmeal Cherry Cookies".  Plus she had bought a "Deep Dish Pizza" and Fran was on her way with drinks.  It looked like we were having ourselves a good old fashioned birthday party.

Jack's Birthday Cake
It seems that the problems with getting the newsletter printed have become worse and the facility is not being cooperative.  Gwyn said that this was it and this project would conclude by end of the year, meaning we had 2 more issues and then it would be over.  She did say that she wanted to think about how we could continue this program in some form or another.  I asked if Chicago Cares could print the newsletters and deliver to this place.  Gwyn said that she's usually not done finalizing the copy till the previous day and so Chicago Cares printing and delivering was not logistically possible.  Larry was agitated with the staff and said that they had never liked this program for whatever reasons and even if we figured out a way to get the newsletter printed, they would find other ways to interfere.  Gwyn echoed that sentiment and after 10+ years of this project, it’s a shame that it has come to this. Elmer, who had come in chimed in on this, as did Jim.  It seems like no one likes the guy in charge.  Larry mentioned how he had once requested his AC to be fixed and this person just came in and stared at it.  Everyone was on a rant, except Jack, who was quiet as usual.

Gwyn handed out pizza, which all the residents accepted with great enthusiasm. Fran arrived and I asked if she had the beer with her, considering she was getting the drinks!  What she did have was ‘Diet Coke’ and some flavored sparkling water that was quite flavorful.  With pizza in the house, it was only a matter of time before we started the discussion on Chicago vs New York style pizza.  I personally prefer the NY style and mentioned that to Elmer, who is a New Yorker.  I said that it must be the water that makes it unique.  But what was truly outstanding were Gwyn’s cookies.  She really does a great job of remembering and celebrating birthdays and I have always seen her get cookies on these occasions.  It was time for Jack to cut the cake and even in the absence of a candle, I told him to make a wish.  After that we all sang “Happy Birthday”, with Jack joining in as well.  Larry mentioned how they had gotten ice cream on Jack’s actual birthday a few days ago – “Butter pecan”, he proclaimed.

Next, Gwyn gave Jack his presents, including Bible themed word search books and Jack loved them.  Gwyn said that she had almost picked crossword ones by mistake, knowing that Jack dislikes crosswords.   Larry was in good voice this evening and said that he was getting more religious with age.  He had given up meat and was strictly vegetarian for the last 4 months.  He said that he got his protein from whey powder and cottage cheese and felt great.  He mentioned that he had been close to death 3 times, including last month when he had congenital heart failure and came within 5 minutes of dying.  But it was not all glum chat as he then told us about some lunch cruise that he was going on next week.  It was organized by Lakeview Nursing and he recalled with fondness the last time he had been on that cruise, back in 2010.  He told us that he had been a fisherman for 20 years and so used to water.  But the cruise was the first time that he had felt as if he had been “floating in air”.  Plus he had enjoyed watching the skyline, a view he had never bothered appreciating during his time as a fisherman.  I asked him to tell us more about his fishing days and we learned that he had owned 4 tugs and employed 36 people, only hiring a “bad seed” once. 

In the meanwhile Jack was showing Gwyn some old photographs, but then he soon collected his presents and left as Gwyn put all the cookies in zip lock bags for folks to take with them.  One lady came over to see what was going on and Elmer gave her his cookies. I enjoy needling him and said that he wouldn't have given his cookies to a guy!  He departed soon thereafter, but not before taking my email address, saying that he was member of a law firm who could offer Chicago Cares “pro bono” services.  I asked Jim if he was excited for the upcoming football season and he said that he wasn’t sure about the backup ‘Quarterback’. I said that the team had a serious issue if they were worrying about things like that.  I left after a wonderful evening, reflecting on what a fantastic person Gwyn is.  It wasn’t about the food or the presents but the fact that she makes the residents feel like she genuinely cares about them and their special days.  For a birthday is about being with people like that.  It always is.

  *All the client's names have been changed in order to respect their privacy