Letters To Santa

Location: United States Postal Service
Date: December 2014

Last year I had participated in this program and it had been a very humbling experience. I had seen hundreds…thousands of letters from kids and families, hoping for a gift from Santa.  It was well within my ability to fulfill many of those wishes and I should have.  I know what it feels like to wake up on Christmas morning and have had a visit from Santa.  All of those children deserve to have that feeling as well.  So there was no doubt in my mind that I would participate again this year. 

I decided to go to the main Post Office during my lunch hour and for whatever reason, I was not in a good mood that day.  I was on the train and I saw a homeless man get in and start making his way down the aisle asking for help.  There was a girl sitting with earphones on and listening to music and as he approached her row, she reached inside her bag and got out a sandwich that she handed to the man.  She then went back to her music and the entire episode had taken not more than a few seconds.  I had been in a hurry to get to the post office and back to work, and a guy had rushed into the train as the doors were about to close, causing a delay of not more than 2 seconds at best.  But with my mood that day it had been enough to annoy me and I had been glaring at him.  We both had seen this gesture of the girl handing over her lunch and we looked at each other and smiled.  At that moment whatever ailment had been bugging me that day vanished and I was ready to go to the post office in the spirit that was required. 

As I went upstairs to the main hall of the post office, I saw that a family had assembled and were sorting through the letters.  Upon seeing me one of them said, “Aah, one more”.  I smiled at them and grabbed a few letters to peruse.  At times I consulted with the family to clarify a few things that the kids wanted, and which were a clear reference to some “pop culture” that I was unaware off.  A woman and a cameraman approached me and she said that they were from some Spanish channel and asked if they could ask me a few questions.  I said sure and they asked why I was participating in this project.  I mentioned how a friend of mine had once said that a person should give their “time, talent or treasure” to the community and I was trying to do so here.  They asked what message I would like to give to their viewers so that they come and I said that the people have to feel from within that they want to participate and not through anything that I would say.

For the boy
That was it as far as the interview was concerned and I went back to sorting through the letters.  Like the previous year, I picked a boy and a girl to support this year and then went to ‘Target’ one evening to look for the presents that they had asked for.  The girl was 4 years old and wanted a “Singing Anna and Elsa” from ‘Frozen’ as well as some learning toys.  She – or her mom - had even pointed out things like ‘Abacus’, which was quite impressive.  The boy was 2 years old and wanted learning toys as well, and something called “Paw Patrol”.  Plus, I noticed in the letter that he had a 2 month old baby brother.  I found a learning toy for the girl and the boy, but that was it since there was nothing there from the other things that they wanted.  I decided to get something for the 2 month old infant baby that the boy had mentioned, and found a teething toy as well as a bib with a saying, “My First Christmas”.

And the girl
I went to the ‘Disney Store’ that was right across and saw that they had the singing dolls that the girl wanted.  They were a bit steep in prize and so I picked one of ‘Elsa’ and as I was going towards the checkout, the store attendant said that these were quite popular and would be sold out soon.  I stopped when I heard this and turned around and picked up the matching ‘Anna’ doll as well.  The little girls shopping list was complete!  There was still a matter of finding the “Paw Patrol” and so I walked over to the other ‘Target’ near my apartment.  I found a bunch of “Paw Patrol” toys there, which are nothing but dogs in law enforcement.  One of the pups barked when you pressed its paw and I picked that for him.

I carried the bags to my office and for the next 10 days I couldn’t find time to mail them.  I had bought some gift wrapping paper and so wrapped them and put inside some boxes that I had also found in the storage closet.  I made some cards for the kids saying that they had been good this year and thus should enjoy these presents.  Finally, just before Christmas, I took these boxes in a cab and arrived back at the familiar post office.  It was funny that the cab driver that I had was extremely kind and even when I arrived at my destination; a passing woman opened the door so that I could get out.  It must be the holiday spirit in the air. 

All ready to go
The post office was full of people who were mailing presents similar to mine and I even saw Wendy from Chicago Cares dropping off some boxes.  I saw a family who had several boxes wrapped with gift paper - in fact they required a cart to bring all of these boxes to the weighing machine.  It was moving to see so much generosity ,and reassuring to know that some aspects of our community are in good hands.  I left after mailing my boxes, once again feeling that I could have…should have done more.  I am very much capable of that, financially and so there is no excuse for not trying to accommodate one more family, one more child.  I really have nothing left to gain or lose anymore and so if it was just a question of spending more money, it’s the easiest of the “time, talent or treasure” things for me to do.  However, I do hope that the boy and girl enjoy their presents, including the little baby brother.  It’s the least anyone can do for them.

Macy’s ‘Believe’ Campaign for Make-A-Wish

Location: Macy’s, Water Tower Place
Date: November & December 2014

Yes Virginia, there is a Santa Claus

Yes Virginia
It was time.  I had written to Dana at MAW months ago asking to participate again this year.  This time I requested the State Street branch since I had moved to the South loop.  She warned me that it receives the most number of letters, but I said that I would manage.  Later, when MAW put the stores on their website, State Street was missing, since it had already been assigned to me.  I left messages and sent email to my contact at Macy’s, but never heard back. In any case, I just decided to show up on my first assigned week.

“I need a home to live in.  Me and my family are homeless. Please help.”

The State Street Macy’s is a huge store, covering the entire block.  I arrived and saw that the ‘HR’ offices were on the 8th floor and even then it took me a long time to locate it.  As I went inside, they of course weren’t expecting me and it took some convincing on my part for them to dispatch someone to get the letters.  After waiting for some time a gentleman finally arrived and he was carrying bag full of letters, which he said had been collected from 2 of the 3 mailboxes in the store.  I went home and counted them, and in just 2 days we had collected 266 letters.  It definitely seemed like it was going to be a heavy load this year.

“I want all dogs and cats and all animals to be safe from abuse”

I went on Monday to drop these off and was back at Macy’s the following weekend.  Once again, they weren’t ready for me, but they found a lady who said that she would go and collect all of the letters from the 3 mailboxes.  I told her that I would walk with her and so we armed ourselves with garbage bags and went to the box on the 7th floor.  I saw that some kids were sitting at a table nearby writing letters and it was a shame that they had to see me open the box and collect the deposit.  Any notions that they may have had of seeing an ‘Elf’ do this job would have been shattered.  But I had my own problems, for there were hundreds of letters in there.  The lady next to me shook her head and we both knew that we were in for the long haul.

“Don’t let my girlfriend go to Mexico. I love her”

Next stop was the 5th floor and this one was full as well.  The bags were already heavy before we got to the box in the basement and once we had collected the hundreds that were in there, we had to “triple bag” everything. By this time it was as heavy and bulky as Santa’s bag usually is and I struggled to get it home on the train.  It took me almost the entire Sunday’s football schedule to count the 1600 letters that I had collected that day. 

“I have a heart condition and need a place to stay”

Typically, in the past years when I have delivered the letters to MAW offices, I have taken them in the Macy’s bags in which they have been collected.  This time, with the sheer volume, I had to put them in a suitcase and wheel them to my office and later to MAW.  I met Dana and told her that something had to be done since I couldn’t deal with the increasing volume leading up to Christmas.  Dana agreed and said that I should wait till ‘Believe’ day, when we were expecting over 15,000 letters at State Street branch alone!  She said that she would call Macy’s and see if they can provide some help, at least in terms of ensuring that all the letters are collected and ready for pickup.  Thankfully this was the case when I went over the next weekend and a giant bag was ready for my pickup.  In the end it was still a lot to carry and it totaled 1250 when I counted the next day.

“For Christmas can I please have…well can you please make no one in my family go to the hospital”

When I was at MAW ‘Festival of Thanksgiving’, one of my fellow volunteers mentioned that he had been collecting at State Street the previous year and had to use a car to deal with the volumes.  He said that he would invite his friends over for a “counting party” because there was no other way to get it done in a timely manner.  I dropped off the latest batch at MAW and wrote to Dana asking if we could think of a strategy to provide me some assistance.  She called me a bit later and said that MAW would be handling the collection from now until the end of the season, considering that it was almost impossible for one person to do it without a car.  Plus, she said that they would follow my suggestion of opening up the counting as a separate volunteer opportunity for people to show up at their offices and count. 

“I want my dog to live longer”

I was disappointed that I would not be able to complete the program this year.  It was not just my responsibility, but also my privilege to have been associated with this initiative and it felt as if I had let MAW down, though I really hadn’t.  But my involvement wasn’t really over since there was a small matter of my own wish. 

“I would like to be happy at New Year and not feel so tired all the time”

As with previous years, I had picked the ‘National Believe Day’ on December 12th for my wish but as it got closer, I wasn’t sure if I would get the time to do it that day.  I was near ‘Water Tower Place’ on the 11th and so went inside Macy’s to make my wish.  Near the mailbox they had set up merchandise to celebrate the occasion, including DVD of ‘Yes Virginia’ as well as books and Christmas Tree Ornaments.  I picked up a postcard, but try as I may I couldn’t do it.  I couldn’t make my wish.  That evening I came back and watched the ‘Yes Virginia’ short film for the umpteenth time and once again realized what a special occasion this entire thing is. 

“I've got a wonderful family and toys and everything I have is good enough”

On 12th I sent Dana an email thanking them for everything that MAW does this season. “It's a special day for not just us at MAW, but for everyone who is united in one belief that there is some good in the world and there is always something to hope for. I was at Macy's yesterday and picked up my "Virginia Christmas Tree Ornament" and will be going back later today to write my letter. Happy National Believe Day to all of you and thank you for everything that you do to make wishes come to life.”  She wrote back saying that it was indeed a special day and over 50 wishes were happening all across the nation today. She then thanked me for supporting their mission and the children.  Now there was just one thing left.

“Please visit all those children who are sick or have no one to visit them for Christmas”

I went to State Street Macy’s over lunch and as I stood next to the mailbox watching some kids writing their wish, it hit me.  I knew exactly what I wanted and as with the year's before, I wrote it down, put to my heart and made my wish.  Yeah, so I had not been able to finish what I had started, but that is a small thing in the grand scheme of things.  Once again, I had seen letters of kindness and generosity. Yes, there were many that were cries for help, but there was hope in there as well. Over a hundred years ago one man had told a little girl that there was something magical in this world if you believed in it.  I had believed in the power of a wish, just as these people had.  And after all that I have been through with MAW; like Virginia I still believe that there is a Santa Claus.

“I just want to be happy and loved for a very very very long time”

Chicago Cares Goes Caroling

Location: DePaul Student Union & Multiple Locations
Date: Saturday, December 13, 2014; 9:30 am-12:00 pm

It was time once again to lend my singing talents to this project.  I had enjoyed doing this last year and so signed up way ahead of time when I saw this on the calendar.  While at Lakeview Nursing earlier in the week, I learned that it wasn’t on the list of places that we would be visiting and that was a shame.  Unlike last year, when I was running late and had gone straight to the 1st location, I went to the meeting place, which was DePaul Student Union.  After waiting inside for some time I realized that no one else was around and then saw that a group had assembled out on the sidewalk.  I had almost missed out again!  Our Volunteer Leader was chatting with the others and she said that she had just landed at the airport and come straight for this project.  Almost all of the volunteers were wearing holiday gear, including ‘Reindeer Hats’ and ‘Rudolph Nose’.  I had worn my ‘Santa’ hat from last year.  Today was also the “12 Days of Christmas Bar Crawl’ taking place in the neighborhood and so there were many other folks walking about with holiday gear.  The only difference was that they were on their way to get a drink!

Aah 'The 12 Days of Christmas', one of my all time favorites
The bus arrived and not everyone who had signed up was here.  Or maybe they did get here, but joined the other group thinking that the other activity would be more fun.  On our way to the 1st stop I asked our leader if would be getting books, because I surely hadn’t memorized any of the carols.  She said that they would be waiting for us at the senior center that we were headed towards.  As soon as we walked in and were checking-in at the lobby, we could smell bacon.  It seems like the regular Chicago Cares breakfast project was on.  We arranged ourselves in a group and asked for requests.  The residents were certainly enthusiastic and threw out a few options.  We started with ‘Jingle Bells’ and then ‘Silent Night’, which is always interesting, since it required some skill and none of us could have been mistaken for a professional.  We then did ‘Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer’, which is always fun, and then someone requested ’12 Days of Christmas’.  I said that it would take forever, but we did it with gusto.  We concluded with the ever difficult, ‘Feliz Navidad’ and then ‘White Christmas’, which always reminds me of Bing Crosby.  The other Chicago Cares volunteers who were serving breakfast cheered us on and we left after ‘We wish you a Merry Christmas’.  On my way out I passed their ‘Fitness Center’ and looked way better than the one in my current building.

Perhaps our leader wasn’t pleased with our performance, because she made us practice on route to our 2nd stop, which had another Chicago Cares breakfast project in progress.  Once again, there were several requests and we performed some of the same carols as before.  This time the residents joined in as well.  Just as we were done, someone mentioned that it was one of the resident’s birthday and so we performed ‘Happy Birthday’ before leaving.  Our final stop was on the Southside, near the ‘White Sox’ stadium.  This time we were digging deep into the book and practicing stuff that I had never heard before.  We arrived in a warm and cozy room where the residents were getting ready for Bingo.  They all looked like Asian immigrants and there were no requests when we solicited some.  Since we had a choice of what to perform, I told my colleagues that we should stick to upbeat carols to get the crowd excited, rather than do the slow songs. In any case, it was as fun as before.

After this set I told the leader that since I lived on the Southside, I would take the train rather than return on the bus with them.  I bid my team goodbye and left after another fun and successful year of caroling.  It may seem trivial to us, but I guarantee that it means a lot to the residents of these places; to have someone come and spread the holiday cheer.  I have said it before and I will say it again, music therapy should be a regular program on Chicago Cares calendar.  The evidence is clearly there for all to see and if we cannot act on it, then we are just making up the numbers.

What's The Word

Location: Lakeview Nursing and Rehabilitation Center
Date: Wednesday, December 10, 2014; 6:30-8:00 pm

The last one
This was it, the very last day of this project.  Gwyn had sent me an email earlier asking if I would be willing to lead the replacement project that was being planned.  It was a nice offer, but I responded saying that I could not possibly commit to a recurring project.  But there was still a matter of wrapping up our final issue.  Besides that, we were also having the ‘Holiday Party’ this evening and Gwyn said that there would be food.  I asked if I could get something and she said perhaps something to drink.  Now, I could think of several beverages that I would have liked to get for the party, but almost all of those would have been confiscated by Lakeview Nursing.  So, I settled on flavored water from ‘Walgreens’.

Never shy to express an opinion, Larry can come across as a bit rough, but he does open up once he spends time with you.  While he may appear to lack patience, what Larry does have in abundance, is passion.  He was in charge of ensuring that the newsletters made it to the rest of the residents, and was really disappointed and hurt that Chicago Cares decided to pull the plug on this project.  Over the last few years I have come to like him and it was great to learn about his life before Lakeview Nursing.  Back then Larry was, and continues to be, a man of integrity.

I arrived to see that Gwyn was setting up the table and there were Oatmeal cookies, Peanut-butter balls covered with chocolate, and pizza.  I put the drinks on the table to the great appreciation of Larry and others – Jack, Jim and Elmer.  I asked Jim about his new place and he said that it wasn’t ready yet.  Jack was quiet as usual and Elmer said that he was still waiting to send me an email, though it was typed and ready to go.  Fran arrived soon along with 2 other first time volunteers.  As I talked with them I learned that one of those volunteers lived in the same building that I had moved to when I came to Chicago and we chatted about some of the places in that area.  I do have a lot of memories from that place. 

Jack is the soul of this group.  He doesn't say much but there is something reassuring about his quiet presence.  A WWII veteran, Jack is a very wise person when you get to know him.  He was also our fact finder for the newsletter, pouring over the 'Chase Book of Records' while the rest of us chatted about things that were not necessarily going to make it in the issue.  If there was ever a definition for ‘dignity’ in that book, Jack’s picture would have been right next to it.

This evening was more a celebration and conversations than anything else.  Elmer was holding court with the other volunteer and I overheard a few comments on some night clubs in Chicago where Elmer said the one could get – and I quote – “Bleep-faced”.  Well, trust Elmer to come up with that!  I mentioned how I love visiting New York City and Elmer, who is from there, told me about some places including a restaurant, which he claims to have “co-ed bathrooms”.  Hmm, not quite sure how that’s possible, but it will not be a reason for me to go there.  He said that I should find a date in New York and take her there.  Well then, I’ll get right to it.  And I’ll be sure to use the bathroom as an incentive!

Aah Elmer.  I met him at the 'Get Crafty' project where he called me “pulchritudinous” and said that I had “worked him like a rented mule”.  Quick witted and sharp, I have always enjoyed my banter with Elmer.  A recent addition to this group, Elmer brought a refreshing attitude to this project, where the volunteers soon learnt that being a senior does not necessarily mean that they can’t teach you some new tricks.  A charmer to the core, Elmer shows glimpses of how he definitely would have been a “ladies man” in his younger days…or not so distant past.

It was a party for sure
Jack and Larry were silent, but Jim was in top form, especially as he indulged in his favorite pastime of ripping into the ‘Cubs’, saying that they could “buy” as many players as they wanted, but they would never win.  As Gwyn served the pizza, I looked at the final issue of ‘As We See It’ and it was called…well “The Final Issue”.  There were some of the tidbits that we had discussed, such as “Sadie Hawkins Day” and something called “Practice Compassion Day” that was on November 13th.  I went for an engagement party that day in a bar and it took every ounce of my compassion to stay there for the duration.

Jim and I have probably had the most interaction over the last few years.  With a twinkle in his eye, Jim is warm, friendly and welcoming. Of everyone that I have met here, Jim is the one person that I see myself hanging out with.  Always ready to discuss sports, Jim loves his Chicago teams…all except the Cubs.  Jim is excited to be leaving Lakeview Nursing soon, looking forward to starting a new and independent life.  But I am sure that his presence will be missed by all of his friends here...including me.

Folks started on the ‘Word Search Puzzle’ and while Larry and Jack were concentrating hard, the rest of us were just socializing.  Jim had forgotten his glasses and said that he was no good with the search anyways. Gwyn mentioned that Chicago Cares had nixed the ‘Game Night’ project that was supposed to replace this one and so that was that. Gwyn said that she was planning to come over anyways and I told her to keep me in the loop.  We could have chatted all evening but it was time to leave.  Gwyn said that there’s no holiday party without presents and she gave the Larry, Jack, Jim and Elmer a gift wrapped package each, and told them not to open them till Christmas.  I asked what was in it and she there were puzzle books and some candy.

Gwyn was the Volunteer Leader of my very first Chicago Cares project…this one.  That Wednesday evening she had brought with her home-made cookies, since it was Jim’s birthday.  And from that day on I have never seen her come here empty handed.  She remembers everyone’s birthday and never fails to get them something, either a present or their favorite cookies or cake.  She is one of the most genuine people, who truly cares about the residents and they absolutely adore her.  She is one of star leader that Chicago Cares was privileged to have. 

I told the residents that I would see them during ‘Pet Therapy’ soon.  Two years ago I had come to this place with a long journey ahead of me.  With everything that has happened since, the journey if anything may be longer than was before.  But I have seen some incredible sights on the way, and will continue to do so.  And it all started over here. That’s why this was, and always will be, special.

*All the client's names have been changed in order to respect their privacy

Dinner At The Wells Street Cafe

Location: Breaking Bread Ministries/LaSalle Street Church
Date: Wednesday, December 03, 2014; 5:45-8:15 pm

This was the last instance of Chicago Cares’ participation in this event.  However, I had asked if I could be involved as a regular volunteer and Marianne had said that she would schedule me on the 1st Wednesday of each month, and as far as I was concerned, nothing would be different.  Marvin, a terrific Volunteer Leader, was going to be leading this one and I arrived to see him there, along with the usual ‘Moody Bible’ students and Keith.  There was no sign of Marianne and I learnt that she had a root canal procedure and so would be missing this one.

The festive cookies
There were boxes upon boxes of cookies donated by a bakery and Keith wanted 10 cookies on each plate.  Marvin and Hannah were doing that I joined them.  The cookies were special ones with festive decorations, bright colors; shapes etc, and were looking fantastic.  We piled on the cookies on the 18 plates and put them on the trolley.  We still had several cookies left over and decided to put them out when the guests come over for seconds.  I moved to the salad station and helped mix the dressing in.  We then estimated how much should be added to each of the 18 bowls and did a decent job with the distribution.  And then just as we were about to take the trolley into the refrigerator, Keith came over with carrots, melons and some additional dressing, meaning we had to remove everything from the bowls and mix again!

We were done early and Keith gave his speech, using the additional time to go into details on the origins of this program, on how 11 years ago someone found a hungry and homeless man on the front steps of the ‘LaSalle Street Church’, and was moved to create this kitchen.  After telling the new volunteers the usual around how to welcome our guests, he turned over the proceedings to another regular volunteer, Matt, who was playing Marianne’s role this evening.  He told us about the way the evening would proceed and then assigned duties; with me on serving.

Today’s menu was turkey chili with turkey present in 3 ways - chunks, pulled and ground.  Plus, there was some chicken and rice.  We also had juice tonight, which was a mix of a few different juices, though not Grapefruit, since Keith said that the guests disliked that.  I was plating chili and since we had two trays of it, was pouring generous servings on a bed of rice.  Soon it was time for seconds and people had started lining up.  As decided earlier, the extra boxes of cookies were kept for the guests to take.  For once we had not put salad bowls on empty tables and thus there was some salad available as well.  People loved the cookies and were asking for them, especially the ones with special designs.  The chili was popular and many came back for it, but there were some who took the salad as well.  One guy asked if he could have more cookies and since our intention is always to give away all of the food, we helped him fill 3 containers with them. 

Once the line had dissipated, I went over to help with the clean-up; wiping down the tables and stacking up the chairs.  The music was on in the background and some of the guests had joined in on the singing.  Once all was done, I wished Marvin and others goodbye.  Marvin was here for the first time and he had been impressed, so much so that he mentioned that he would come back.  I told him to sign-up with Marianne, just as I had.  After almost two years with Chicago Cares at this location, their association with this project was done.  I was just getting warmed up.

Make-A-Wish Children’s Hospital Festival Of Thanksgiving

Location: UIC Student Center
Date: Saturday, November 22, 2014; 10:00 am-2:00 pm

Back in the familiar hall
It was that time again…one of my favorite and most rewarding projects of the year.  Make-A-Wish had sent an email earlier in the week asking if we could pick-up some of the supplies, but that required access to a vehicle and so I did not offer to do so.  I took a cab to the ‘UIC Student Center’ and for once I did not get lost.  I went up to the 2nd floor and there was no one in the big room. I guess I was early.  I asked one of the organizers on where I could set up and she said wherever I wanted!  I decided to choose the same table as last year, especially since it was right next to the gift's table, meaning we should get a lot of traffic.  The organizers found the supply boxes that MAW had dropped off earlier and just as I was going through them, another volunteer, Megan, arrived.

My "turkey"
We had 3 main activities for today – tattoos, scratch-off cards and making a “hand thanksgiving turkey”, where you trace the outline of your hand on paper, cut it off and make a turkey out of it.  We set up the table with MAW table cloth, just as our other two volunteers arrived - Fred and Monica.  I traced out one of the “hand turkeys” and stuck “colored feathers” - that we had cut from paper - on it. Then I stuck a sticker on it, which said “I am Thankful For” and wrote, “Family, Friends, Make-A-Wish, Holiday’s, Santa”.  The other organizations were setting up their stuff around us and the families had started arriving.  I saw Dr. Schmidt, whom I had met last year, and she remembered me as well.  We had a chat and she once again reiterated how this was the only thanksgiving that most of these families would have.  After some of my recent experiences with MAW, I knew how important it was to have frequent reminders of that.

The place was bustling now and I could recognize some familiar faces.  At our table the tattoos were quite popular and kids flocked to that – hey even I was wearing a puppy tattoo on my hand!  I helped some kids trace out their turkeys and then they took over the decorations, knowing exactly what they wanted.  Even with all of these kids around, I was looking for one particular child – Olivia, whom I had seen a couple of years ago and then again last year.  I asked one of the organizers and she pointed out Olivia and her mom.  I immediately went over and her mom remembered me as well.  Olivia’s little brother who was but a baby 2 years ago was now a toddler.  And Olivia…I could hardly believe how much she had grown.  Time does go by quickly.

I came back to our table and we were indeed busy.  Kids were coming in for hand tracing, and tattoos as well as the scratch-off cards.  In fact, they were extremely creative with those and one kid even did a ‘Bulls’ logo which would have made them proud.  Two ‘UIC’ graduate students stopped by and they were interested in MAW and what we do.  I told them about our mission, how to volunteer, as well as a few stories.  Plus, one of them was getting a Doctorate in ‘Materials Science’ and I definitely had more than a few things to say about that!

We decided to take turns for our breaks, and initially Megan and I went around to other stations.  I picked up some information from a few of them, including Gilda’s Club, so that I would be able to volunteer with them in the future.  One station was doing tattoos as well and I got another one on my arm over there.  The station where Bear Necessities was stationed was doing bracelets, but the best was a group who was decorating donuts…real donuts which you could eat afterwards!  As with previous years there was lunch which some of the other volunteers were serving and we were welcome to join the families.  After having a bite to eat I went back to my table and some of the familiar kids from previous years started coming, including Steven, whom I had called the “most well-dressed young man” for two straight years and once again he proved me right.  Also present was his ever-thoughtful sister Emelcee, who was doing an outstanding job with her scratch-off card. 

The party was truly on
The DJ was now taking over the proceedings and he announced that it was his birthday.  This led to us singing “Happy Birthday” to him after which he got the kids going by playing some popular tunes and getting everyone on the dance floor. Little Olivia was there as well, hugging one of the students and dancing and I later saw her do the same with another toddler boy.  The way he was chasing her, I told Olivia’s mom that she was in trouble already!  Next, it was time for raffle and the presents on the table next to us were being handed off.  First claim was for the kids who were patients in the hospital and then it was the siblings’ turn, which meant that Olivia had to patiently wait.  She really wanted a baby doll, but when her turn came, that was taken and the poor thing had to settle for something else. 

We did a few more tattoos and turkeys – including a tiny one made by a little girl – and then it was time to go.  We cleaned up our station and I said goodbye to Dr. Schmidt for another year before signing the giant "Thank You" card and then leaving.  It had been another outstanding day and my fellow volunteers had been fantastic.  Every year I leave this party, looking forward to the one the following year. Today was no exception and I cannot wait to see Olivia again.  This truly is one of the highlights of my year.