Read–With-Me At HGS

Location: House Of The Good Shepherd
Date: Tuesday, April 28, 2015; 6:30-7:45 pm

It was a nice day and I arrived early, so stopped at a coffee shop to get ‘Affogato’…because that’s what you do when you have the time.  I then walked over to HGS and arrived just as Wilson was pulling into the driveway.  Marvin, who was leading, was already here as were a couple of other volunteers.  That was it.  The younger kids group did not have enough volunteers either and so we couldn’t borrow from them.  While we were waiting, Marvin told us that there was a group of 4 kids who were new and they could be a handful.  He also mentioned that we would go outdoors today as the weather was cooperating. 

We went downstairs to see that the kids had already assembled and were playing hide and seek.  They all knew Wilson and were excited to see him, asking when they could see a movie.  It seems like Wilson has been showing them movies on my portable screen.  It was time for introductions and all of the kids gave us their name, age and what they like to eat.  One girl said different fruits, other said vegetables, another said fruits. What was this - A health show!  Fortunately one guy said pizza and then not to be outdone by others, he added a smoothie.  Kids nowadays!

Our book for the evening
The introductions were done and now it was time to pair up.  As usual, I wasn’t picked – though one kid recognized me from last time since I read with him.  Wilson was with two girls and so I joined them, sitting under some contraption that looked like yoga mats!  The girls were taking turns reading a book called “The Day The Crayon’s Quit”, which was about various crayon colors writing to a boy named ‘Duncan’, pleading to be his favorite color.  It was fun to see the different colors like ‘Yellow’ and ‘Orange’ stating their case, claiming to be the colors of the sun.  One of the girls said that ‘Blue’ and ‘Pink’ were her favorite colors and so she wanted to read about those.  When a page on ‘Pink; came, there were 4 characters on it.  One of them was a ‘Princess’, which she claimed as her role; a ‘Dinosaur’, which was claimed by the other girl; a ‘Cowboy’, that was Wilson; and then a ‘Monster’, which was me.  Oh well, you accept the part that’s offered to you. 

The girls were doing a good job of reading and whenever a difficult word would come up, I would pronounce it for them and also explain its meaning; for example, “career”.  We also played “spot the animal” in the pictures, during which I learned that one of the girls did not like cats and dogs because they had the fleas!  Soon the reading time was up and Marvin had bought cookies and mango treats, which all the kids were excited to eat.  We had initially thought of going out, but Marvin said that it had cooled down a bit and so we would play indoor games like “musical chairs”.  We arranged the chairs and while everyone was participating, I was appointed the “DJ” and chose “Happy” from ‘Despicable Me’, having my back to the game when the song was on.  For the next 10 minutes we had a lot of fun with volunteers doing as well as the kids and competing for the available chairs.  In fact, I joked that a female volunteer who was wearing high heels would probably end up winning!  But eventually a little girl won and by now the time was up.  It had been a fantastic evening and the kids were wonderful.  I even got some high-5s before leaving, which is a win considering that I wasn’t even picked for the reading!

American Cancer Society Making Strides ELT Meeting

Location: American Cancer Society Office
Date: Monday, April 27, 2015; 6:00-7:30 pm

I had been selected to be on the “Executive Leadership Team” or “ELT” tasked with organizing the “Making Strides” walk this year, and today was our kick-off meeting.  I arrived at the ‘ACS’ offices along with Le’Loni and we went upstairs to see that our Committee chairs Allyson and Katherine, along with 2 other ladies were gathered in the smaller conference room.  Other than them, there were a couple of other ladies who couldn’t be here this evening and we would be the team for the year.  We started with introductions and I learnt that with my 3rd year on the team, I was the longest tenured committee member in the room, and that included Allyson and Katherine!

Our first 'ELT' meeting
We discussed the 2015 Goals in terms of attendees for the 2 kickoffs that we have planned – one in Southside, which would be more family friendly, and one for the corporate sponsors in downtown.  I asked what we were targeting in terms of conversion rate i.e. how many of these attendees would subsequently start teams or even register to participate.  I felt like that should be the point to having a kickoff, but perhaps not everyone shared my views.  Every year, we keep pushing for “Teams” to register and I asked why, because at the end of the day “Participants” is probably a more relevant metric.  But I guess teams is important since we do want people to come together as a community and that helps in fundraising. 

The main change for this year was that as per the national mandate, there would be no more registration fee and I felt that from a fund raising perspective, that was a big loss, since $25 is a big number.  I said that we should promote this everywhere.  ‘ACS’ does not have a Marketing budget, but I said that this “no fee” structure will help us attract teams, and we should make everyone aware of that.  We talked about registering for the walk and I asked if the committee was going to have a team because if we were, then I would much rather join that than start my own.  Allyson said that we should.

Our main responsibility as an 'ELT' was to help recruit new Teams and Sponsors.  I said that we should have some sort of “shared” document that will allow us to see who the existing sponsors were, so that we are not recruiting either them or even their competitors.  Also, if certain people have committed to come back e.g. yoga instructors, masseuse etc., then there was no need to recruit them.  One member talked about how she can arrange for a donation of cookies which have “omega-3 oils” and she said that they were delicious.  Whatever happened to the good old fashioned Chocolate Chip!

Next topic was membership to ‘CAN’ and with the Governor’s budget cuts, this was a key topic.  We all had to get membership and the first two tiers were $10 for “standard” and $20 for “premium”, which gets you a pin.  I wanted to get the lower tier, but did not have change and no one else could break a $20.  Le’Loni kept saying that I should get the premium not because I had the money but because of “the goodness of my heart”.  My only problem with the committee is that it is mandatory for us to get this membership.  While we would do it anyways, I just have a problem with being told to do something or else being turned away. 

We then had a general brainstorming session on our strategy to recruit teams.  I said that I could post on ‘Meetup’, with a message approved by Allyson and Katherine, and they liked the idea.  I said that since I’m analytical, I would like to be able to track how many people we were recruiting through various channels, such as ‘Meetup’.  Apparently when you register, you can answer that question.  Next, I mentioned that we as committee members should be given some talking points, so that we could promote our cause in a unified manner.  I said that I get a lot of questions on the difference between us and ‘Avon’ or ‘Komen’ and so it would be nice to have some discussion points along those lines as well.  Le’Loni said that we could say that we are the only walk in October and while that was a bit weak, Allyson said that we could point out that almost all of the money that we raise goes back into research.  Now that was something I could build on.  Our final task of the evening was to schedule future meetings and we did so from now till October.  We all left with action items and homework for next meeting – come up with 5 strategies to create teams and recruit sponsors.  Looks like I have my work cut out.

American Cancer Society: Walk & Roll

Location: Soldier Field
Date: Saturday, April 25, 2015; 8:00-11:30 am

I had volunteered for them 2 years ago and it had been an ok experience, primarily because of the people in charge.  But this year Jessie was running things and Carrie was on the committee as well.  So I said that I would help out and she put me on the “Tribute Wall” from 8-1, though I told her that I would have to leave around 11:30.  It was cold and wet as I took a bus to 'Soldier Field' and then walked over to the side of the stadium where several tents had been set up.  I saw the "Volunteer check-in tent" where Allyson and Katherine – my new “Strides” committee leads – checked me in and then gave me a t-shirt to wear; which I promptly put over my jacket.  It was raining and really cold.

The "Tribute Cards"
We had a tent set-up for the “Tribute Wall” and I was paired with another volunteer, Heather.  She had already started setting up the black maker pens on the table as well as arranged the "Tribute Cards".  The cards had a ‘Velcro’ tape on the back and that would stick to the ‘tri-fold’ tribute board.  We had plenty of “In honor of” cards, but just 4 “In memory of”.  So we decided to just use the “Honor” cards.  Besides the cards, there were also ribbons that said “In honor of” or “Survivor”, which people could put on their shirt with a pin.  As we were setting up, the wind was playing havoc and there was a risk of our board toppling over. It needed to be weighted down and so I got some heavy boxes and we used them as support on the back side.  Now we were just waiting for people to come...and stay warm and dry.

As we waited, Heather suggested that we get started by making some cards ourselves.  I made one for my Uncle, who recently underwent treatment, and stuck it on the board, just as people started coming in.  In the meanwhile, the cards on the table were getting wet because of the rain and I was wiping them up before people could use them.  There was a suggestion for a donation, though it certainly was not required.  However, many gave whatever they could and we collected that in a pouch that we had.  And it wasn’t just the visitors; several volunteers did the same as well.  Many were honoring someone and quite a few were “Survivors”.  People asked if we had the “In Memory” cards, but we told them that they could cancel “honor” on the existing cards and write “memory” if they chose.  One gentleman came and made a card for a woman who had passed recently.  Heather was wearing a ‘Red Sox’ cap and he was from Boston as well.  In conversation we learnt that all 3 of us had lived in town a few miles apart.  We also learned that he was a part-time member of a rock band where he was the only member not in their 20s!

Everyone was out braving the weather
People started coming in droves and the wall was filling up.  Many asked if they could come after the walk to collect their card and we said of course.  In fact, I thought that all of these should be saved, and Carrie did indicate that these would be boxed.  I wondered if there is way that ‘ACS’ could build a wall in their office, which would be full of these; just like the ‘Make-A-Wish’ office.  A group came where one of the girls had a dog dressed in a pink shirt.  But the poor thing was getting wet and the girl said that they may have to take her back, which was a shame.  One lady came with 6-8 pre-made cards and then made some more.  Everyone wanted to take a picture with their card or at least a picture of their card on the board.  We were letting them come inside our tent to do so or taking their camera and clicking ourselves.  If people had multiple cards, they wanted them placed in a specific way so as to get all of them in the picture.  Hey, this was a great thing that they were doing and so we did whatever it took on our side.

Jessie stopped by and asked if more people were reluctant to stop by because of the “donations” sign and I said not really.  She asked us to use our discretion if we wanted to leave the sign there.  People came and asked if this was only for the “survivors” and we mentioned that they could make a card to honor whomever they wanted.  Many people were also taking the ribbons and putting them on and it was proving to be a popular thing.  Many were asking logistics related questions such as when the walk was supposed to start or location of various tents, and we were in turn directing them to the “Information Tent”.  All I knew was that the walkers, skaters and bikers were all starting at different times and following different paths.

I literally had to "stand" on the tent
While it was cold and wet, the ‘MC’ on the stage was doing a fantastic of motivating people.  He was keeping everyone’s spirits up with his chatter and choice of music.  While we were shivering, a gust of wind came and one of the legs of our tent came out of the ground.  This was dangerous as the tent could easily collapse on us.  I informed Allyson about this and she said that she would call Carrie. But immediate steps were required and so I went outside and put my foot on one leg of the tent to keep it down.  I was literally standing on one end of the tent to keep it up.  Carrie came and said that there were several other issues going on due to the weather, and so in interests of time and prioritization, we should just call it quits for this one.  I do not like quitting and neither did I think that it was fair to take the board down since people seemed to like it.  But we couldn’t continue the way we were.

I went over to the “Survivor Tent” and asked them if they could accommodate us, and to the credit of the lady there, she made place for us to put our stuff.  So I carried the board over to that tent along with some of our boxes.  We were now set up inside the big tent which was much better in terms of managing the wind.  Around us were t-shirts, wristbands other things for “Survivors” and “Caregivers”.  There was also a makeover station with makeup, wigs etc. for women if they so desired.  There was also some breakfast comprised of bagels and muffins.  In one corner of the tent there was a couple sitting with yoga mats but with the weather, that wasn’t happening and so they left.  This was a shame because they seemed like good folks.  I chatted with the lady who had helped us get set-up and learned that her name was Lisa, and that she has been a volunteer with ‘ACS’ for 20 years.  We had a great conversation as we waited for the walkers to return. 

Our "Tribute Wall"
After a while, the people did come back and a few wanted to collect their cards as promised, making me glad that we had moved in here instead of wrapping up.  I saw a couple of “special needs” volunteers; a man and a woman.  He had put a card on the board in her honor – which was smooth move - and was telling us about all the upcoming things they had in terms of volunteering; including a mid-week protest against the Governor’s policy on health and housing benefits.  I said that their week was looking to be more exciting than mine!  They were a cute couple and I enjoyed their company.  I waited till 11:30 chatting with Heather, Lisa and some of the other volunteers, before leaving.  The weather had started improving and the ‘MC’ now had the crowd dancing.  Kudos to him and all of the participants, for they were the real stars of today.  Certainly makes my job easier.

On Every Street - At 400

400 indeed
It has been some time since the 300.  Part of it is due to me being lax in my writing; but one of main reasons has been the reduction in my volunteer hours.  I have always believed that volunteering should never be a chore and if one finds it as being so, then it is time to stop or at least pull back.  While I never considered it a chore, I wasn’t feeling as committed as I had been in the past.  My travels had taken over most of my weekends and work often left me tired on weekdays.  But there were a few projects that I was particularly fond of and ones which I tried to attend regularly – “Lakeview Senior’s Pet Therapy”, “Dinner At Wells Street Café” and “Adler After Dark”.

I will never forget my very first visit to ‘Lakeview Nursing Home’, for it was my very first project.  I have written at length in the past on “What’s The Word” and how that became one of my favorite activities, right until its cancellation last year.  Through that I was introduced to other projects that Chicago Cares ran here, most notably “Lakeview Seniors Bingo” and Lakeview Senior’s Pet Therapy, besides some of the weekend projects.  But the one that I am particularly fond of is “Pet Therapy”.  Yes, I love dogs and this project gives me an opportunity to indulge myself in their company, but it is so much more than that.  This is probably the most “hands on” project that Chicago Cares has when it comes to seniors, since you are literally visiting with them in their rooms.  This is not some Bingo game in a community hall, but a personal experience and perhaps the only interaction that most of the seniors have during the week.  I have seen everything from raw humanity to intense vulnerability to misplaced optimism and even resigned humor during these visits.  And I have met some unforgettable characters like Hannah, who is always ready with a story and Loritta with her endless smiles and my newest friend Pearl, who is as well-read and educated as any person that I have met.  In my opinion, this project is truly the most significant one in Chicago Cares’ portfolio. 

I had first gone to “Dinner At Wells Street Café” through Chicago Cares and had taken an instant liking to the project, primarily because of the people involved.  Marianne, who is in charge of the volunteers and pretty much runs the place, is just the kind of motherly figure that you want to see at the end of a hard day…of which there have been plenty.  Her reassured touch makes what could easily be a chaotic evening a well-run machine, but with the most important ingredient – a human touch.  She never lets us forget why we do what we do and ensures that our guests have the best experience possible, along with the volunteers.  Every month as I visit there, I am reminded of the great people I work with, people like Joe and John; an especially little Hannah who continues to amaze with a maturity far beyond her young age.  It is truly a family environment and the love and respect that our guests have for Marianne is evident.  Even though we have cycled through 3 chefs since I have started here, the one constant is always the high quality of the food.  There is no compromise on that and our guests are treated to a meal worthy of any restaurant.  Plus there is always plenty to go around and no one leaves hungry.  It is my privilege to be able to serve here and more importantly, be a part of that family.

Ever since I moved to Chicago to take up my current job, my association with the scientific community had been reduced to occasional conversations with my old colleagues.  That was till one day at a “Volunteer Expo”, I came across a team from the ‘Adler Planetarium’ and they told me about the volunteer opportunity as an “After Hours Education Host” at their premier social event – ‘Adler After Dark’.  I decided to apply and what followed was a long process, which included a grueling interview – one of the most difficult ones that I have given – and intense training.  But it has all paid off in the end, for this is one of the best volunteer experiences. For 4 hours every month, I get to discuss science with people.  The entire evening is not only designed to provide our guests a great experience, but the volunteers are rotated through various stations, so that they do not get tired and jaded.  On any given evening I talk with ten’s if not hundreds of people and often end up teaching them something that they were not aware of.  Plus every event has its own theme and different set of experiments to accompany it, which keeps everything fresh.  Also, I enjoy the company of my colleagues, who are as nerdy as me when it comes to science and we spend most of our free time debating the latest scientific discovery or even better, “sci-fi” movies.

While these 3 projects will remain some of my more frequent activities, over the course of last 100 articles, I have spent a brief time as a volunteer at Lincoln Park Zoo and also finished my first Jimmy Fund Boston Marathon Walk.  Besides that I had an opportunity to meet Baby Kyler and be a part of the wish that sent him to ‘Disneyworld’…before it was too late.  And I was able to attend a classical concert unlike any other with the residents of Misericordia.  It has been an incredible journey and it still is.  Even though the stops have become a bit infrequent, it is still an experience that introduces me to amazing people…on every street.

*All the client's names have been changed in order to respect their privacy