Location: San Jose Obrero Mission
Date: Thursday, November 15, 2012; 5:45-7 pm
The colors of Pilsen |
A month after my previous visit,
I found myself visiting Pilsen for another round of Mock Interviews. Pilsen is a Mexican-American neighborhood and
is wonderfully colorful due to its murals, restaurants and the general
community. I made my way to the Mission
and met up with Thomas, who was going to be leading this session. Rather than the lobby area we would be meeting
in the computer room this time, a place where the residents are encouraged to
develop their technical skills, as well as use the equipment to look for a
job. Thomas and I waited for the other
volunteers to show up, but none that had signed up actually did. Finally we got underway and I was introduced
to my charge for the evening, Peter.
As I met him, something about
Peter did not feel right. He seemed to be
suffering from some sort of compulsive behavior and throughout the evening I
felt like he was making an effort to keep himself in check. His physical appearance gave an impression
that he was going through tough times.
Before we could get started, he told me that he was looking for a
part-time position in order to be eligible to collect disability benefits. I was finding it tough to get a word in and
this led to him being scolded by Mary, the lady in charge of the mission. To his credit, Peter used that criticism and
was very respectful for rest of the session.
If there is one thing that my
time with Chicago Cares has taught me, it is how not to be judgmental of
people. Quite often I had been quick to
label people based on appearance or first impressions. Over the past two months I had truly been humbled
and tonight was no exception when I learned that Peter was a double graduate,
with degrees from UIC and The Moody Bible Institute.
Let me repeat. A person who appeared to be a misfit in society
was a double graduate from two reputable institutions.
Our new meeting room |
Peter had chosen to go into
janitorial profession because that’s what his family had been doing and was previously employed in variety of places, including a long stint at Potash Markets. Thus, when I presented him with the sample
job options, he choose a janitorial position as the one he wanted to
interview for. I told him that even
though he was looking for a part-time position, we would treat this as if it
were full-time. I wanted to see how he
would respond to situations which required greater commitment. As we went through the various questions, two
things became apparent: Peter was a stand-up
guy and he expected very high standards from his co-workers. This was even reflected in his answers to the
behavioral questions where it was quite evident that if Peter were to be
employed, he would be someone who would hold his colleagues accountable. At one stage I told Peter that his answer was
something I would have been happy to have received from some of the people I
had interviewed for positions in my Company.
At the end we each wrote down our
feedback and then discussed it. Peter had
graded himself higher for some of the questions and I explained why my ranking
was lower. He did not argue, but rather
listened carefully to what I had to say. I
liked his confidence and I mentioned that I would expect him to rise above his
current desire for a part-time job and seek a full-time employment with no
dependency. I asked if he ever
envisioned himself in a supervisory role and was pleased to hear him respond
affirmatively, albeit after a few years.
We concluded the interview at 7 pm, since that was the dinner time at
the mission. Peter thanked me and asked
me for my card, which I gladly gave. It
had been a tough night for the program since one other volunteer showed up late
and Thomas had to scramble to cover as many interviewees as possible. Even then we could not cover everyone,
something I felt bad about. These men
deserved another chance and our help to get back to the workforce. I mentioned to Thomas possibility of starting
earlier so that we could cover two men per volunteer at each session. Thomas said that he will discuss this and thanked
me for my time.
I walked out in the lobby and saw
Peter having his dinner with other men, perhaps the only meal they would have had
that day. It is a strange world we live
in, one where people complain about small things regarding their job. I myself have been guilty during water cooler
chatter about trivial things.
Nowadays we hear about how the economy is bad and how people need to
hang on to their jobs. I do not think the
poor economy has anything to do with how people should behave. Having a job, any job, is a privilege, not a
right. My blog title has a quote from ‘Desiderata’ by Max Ehrmann. I was reminded
of another line from the poem as I sat in the train that evening.
“Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.”
*All the client's names have been changed in order to respect their privacy
“Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.”
*All the client's names have been changed in order to respect their privacy
No comments:
Post a Comment