What's The Word

Location: Lakeview Nursing and Rehabilitation Center
Date: Wednesday, November 12, 2014; 6:30-8:00 pm

I arrived early to see that Jim, Jack and Elmer were already assembled.  Jack was wearing a ribbon and when I asked about it, he said that it was for ‘Veteran’s Day’.  With Jack’s history in service, this was of course appropriate.  Jim told me that he was finally moving out and after 10 long years was going to some studio in the ‘West Loop’.  Soon we were joined by Larry and Gwyn.  Today was the “reveal” of our very last issue and as usual, Lakeview Nursing had not printed any copies since the copier was “broken”.  Gwyn said that she should have known better and I said that it was perhaps “poetic” that this should happen for the last issue.  Gwyn said that she could go to ‘Kinko’s’ to print some copies, but since we were expecting 2 new volunteers, she said that she would wait till they showed up.  Well, no one else showed up besides Fran and so we decided to forego the reveal of the issue till next time at our “Holiday Party”.  We would instead spend the rest of the evening discussing the structure of the new “Games Night” project. 

Darts at Lakeview Nursing!
We started by identifying games that we could play – ‘Bowling’, ‘Cards’, ‘Uno’, ‘Dominoes’ etc.  I said that we should have some trivia game as well, and some other ideas came up such as ‘Corn Hole’.  While they apparently had bowling supplies, I told Fran that perhaps we could get Wilson to make us ‘Corn Hole’ boards!  I asked about ‘Darts’ and Elmer said that nowadays you can get darts with magnetic ends.  Eh, that’s what I had meant.  The last thing I want is for seniors throwing real darts in a nursing home.  Gwyn talked about some card game where you matched the picture on the card with a phrase and that sounded like fun as well.  I was a bit concerned about bowling, especially since most of the residents were in wheelchairs.  However, it seems that they do it all the time and so it would be fine. 

The project would be once a month to start with and since we did not know how many residents would show up, we discussed the number of volunteers that we should recruit.  I said that perhaps we should just have the regulars to start with.  Both Larry and Jim felt that if there was money involved ,residents would come “out of the woodwork”.  Gwyn said that we could have a raffle, where for every 15 minutes that you stay, you get an additional raffle ticket.  So after an hour the residents could have a max of 4 tickets, though you could win only once.  Gwyn wanted to have 5 winners of $5 each, but we needed to clarify with Chicago Cares if giving money was permitted.  When you buy something, you can produce receipts for compensation, and tax purposes, but that would not be possible with cash. 

Jim was excited about his new apartment and couldn't wait to get out.  He said that he had been trapped for 10 years in this place.  I asked why he hadn't left and he said that all of his social security and other income checks came directly here and that’s why he couldn't leave.  Someone had recently sued the city for low-income housing and he managed to get on the lawsuit, because of which he could move into that new place.  He said that many of the other people living here want to go as well...like. Elmer.  Next was the issue of storage of all of the game materials, since Gwyn said that she did not want to carry everything all the time.  I asked about locking all of it here, at which Gwyn said that the management may “misplace” the key.  I said that we could get a combination lock because the games should stay here in case Gwyn can’t make it to one of the sessions.  This led to Fran telling us how people usually “borrow” things.  She has lost a lot of dog bowls, which we use for dogs to drink water out of during ‘Pet Therapy’.  She once found one bowl with soup stains. Now that was disgusting. 

All this time Larry was getting warmed up and then let loose on the management here.  He showed me how they print a one pager newsletter every day, but tell us that the copier is broken when it came to our magazine.  I asked Gwyn why they hated us and Larry, who was in top form, kept asking if I "saw".  I didn't know what to say, but I think I knew what he meant.  Time was up and I left after an interesting evening of conversation with old friends.  I will miss Jim, but he has promised to visit for the games night. But before that, we had one more session to go.

*All the client's names have been changed in order to respect their privacy

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